Success is doing what you want, when you want. where you want, with whom you want, as much as you want!” Tony Robbins
I’m sure this resonates with you! But sometimes we forget this is the ‘why’ that we want success for ourselves. Of course, on a deeper level our ‘why’ is certainly about contributing the wider world but on a personal level this is what we are all striving for!
I’m here to tell you that YOU ARE IN CONTROL of your own success. That YOU have total responsibility for the success you achieve.
Well let me divulge a couple of tips…
1. Success lies in the thoughts you CHOOSE to think or NOT to think right now. Misery only arrives when we choose to think thoughts that are negative. That truly is the only way that misery and lack of success can survive.
2. When you notice yourself in the state of thinking a negative thought, give yourself a MASSIVE pat on the back. Because that right there is called self awareness and is the first step to turning things around. When you become aware you can stop the momentum of that negative thought snowballing into a more negativity.
3. Distract yourself with a positive thought, be grateful for something, anything, perhaps even for the negative thought that arose and you caught. 99% of the time the negativity you are thinking about is utter garbage anyway! Think about the things that make you happy, turn the train around!
Because if you choose to follow the path that leads to misery, you only have yourself to blame!
Jen Hall is Business Clarity Coach for Coaches, Consultants & Experts who want to become Unrivalled Go-To Experts. Jen not only gets you clear on your micro-niche, message and what makes you unique and desirable, but she helps you to define what makes you an irrefutable offer to the market so you can position yourself as a high-end 'must have' option for your prospects. She is a Multi-Award Winning Speaker and Best Selling Author of Expert Unrivalled.